Responding to your letter. I believe the main thing you are dealing with is loss, and an accompanying broken heart. You became emotionally attached to these two women, and that activated all of your longings and yearnings for a life partner you could trust and build a life together. Your biblical values are right on, yet the loss has been severe enough to cause you to questions them. This exacerbates your "trauma" because it calls into question what you believe about and have trusted in … [Read more...]